If people really believe they are a different gender why not call yourself the other gender instead of saying you are "transgender"? You want us to call you by another gender and other pronouns but yet you don't even fully call yourself that! There would be no "transgender" title in your mind and you'd never use if you really truly believed you were another gender. You want us to call male or female or a transgender? It can't be both! Unless you really were the other gender. You are acknowledging you are lying to yourself. The furthest you can go is saying you are transgender. Acknowledging you really aren't the opposite gender and you never can be. And when many like me hear "transgender" we hear "confused" for good reason!